Thanks to Yelp, I was able to see an advanced screening of Gone Girl last night. SO the advanced screening folks issued way too many tickets for the screening and I was turned away despite turning up really early. So mad. A lot of folks were mad. I was one of them. SO MAD. But I got to go to a theater with reclining seats (!!!) to watch with my parents today so it all turned out well in the end!

As per usual, I did not read this book before watching the movie. Long story short, I get to enjoy the movie without knowing how it’ll end or how it deviated from the book.

I’ll admit, I didn’t understand why people were getting so excited about this movie. Not being part of a book fandom will do that to you, I guess. Reviews started pouring in and everyone was raving about the movie, so I went in with fairly high expectations. I’m also a really big fan of David Fincher, the director, so I was ready for a ride.

And boy did I get it.

What a roller coaster of emotions. With the greys between villain and victim, Gillian Flynn (author of the book and the screenwriter) paints this incredible portrait of how many people doing the wrong thing turns into a sh*tstorm, to say the least. The plot takes you for a ride, with plot twists cropping up every which way. It is really enjoyable if you haven’t read the novel, because then the twists really surprise you. There were several points near the middle/end of the film where I thought it was over but then BOOM MORE STUFF IS GOING ON, IT AIN’T OVER JUST YET.

Some spoiler-free points:

• While I do love Fincher’s work, I would like to see him do more with color. He uses this muted color palette so often in his films (see The Social Network, Fight Club, Se7en, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, etc.) and I want to see him and his cinematographers play with COLOR more. Maybe I’ve just been spoiled by Zhang Yimou and Brian Fuller, but I think he can do it.
• I like Ben Affleck in general as a person and as a director, but I’m really just not hot on him as an actor. I don’t know, he often plays these characters where things happen to him, which doesn’t require too much on his part as an actor, and even then it just falls short. I’m kind of over Ben Affleck as an actor, and I’m really curious about what he’ll bring to the table as Batman because… I don’t know, I always feel underwhelmed.
• On the other hand, I really liked the casting of Rosamund Pike. I’ve only seen a few of her movies, and her characters usually don’t have too much depth in those movies. Bond girl. Bennett sister. But here, I got some new things from her, namely:
  • An American accent, which is new to me and done well
  • More depth and breadth to her character, which she also does well
  • She is amazing in Gone Girl. She is about to become HUGE in Hollywood because of this role, and rightfully so.
• Neil Patrick Harris does a great job in his role as the maybe stalker ex-boyfriend. He manages to play on the edge of concerned and obsessed so well. You never quite knew which he was, and that was extremely unnerving. Although it gets overlooked often, I think he did the same with Barney Stinson on How I Met Your Mother: you were never totally sure where he stood morally, and there was something about the way he carried himself where you felt at ease with him most of the time but in the back of your mind you worried about him because you knew deep down you couldn’t 100% predict his next move. So good.

  

In fact, I would argue that what is great about Gone Girl, as is usually the case with many David Fincher films, is that it is really difficult to put a character in a box. Their moral character, as is the case with real people, is not clearly defined. These folks live in the greys between right and wrong, and the film was done in a way that, even as I was leaving the theater, I didn’t know who was the “good guy” or the “bad guy”. Add in the great unreliable narration written in by Gillian Flynn, as both the book and film are told from two characters at odds with each other and who are both, as most people are, unreliable… Plus, we have the craziness of the media as a big theme in this story, and I think that comes across so well. Some of the main antagonistic forces in this movie are the sensationalizing media and the mob mentality of the people who consume those media. MMM yes so good.

… I understand why there’s SO much buzz around this movie. It is good. You don’t know what the truth is. You realize that no character knows the truth either. You understand that the truth exists outside of any single person’s story. Messy stories don’t endings tied neatly in a bow. That’s how life is, and it’s unsettling and fantastically done.

Although I wouldn’t call it one of my favorite films, Gone Girl delivers so well on what it promised.
Rating:★★★★★ 5/5
Would I recommend watching it? Yes. (Please note that there is disturbing imagery in this film that is hard to get out of your head afterwards.)

Comments with spoilers below the trailer.

Okay. Just whoa.I don’t know if this was the intention, but I remember feeling so uneasy because there were 2 things I felt like I didn’t know even as the movie ended:

Did Nick really have violent tendencies towards Amy?Did Desi really stalk Amy after they broke up?

They aren’t small question and would add to all of the characters’ motivations and intentions.

I also wanted to see that cop get justice. She was one of the few characters who seemed mostly good, and she knew Amy was lying. But that is too neat of an ending for such a messy story, isn’t it?

I REALLY WANT TO KNOW ABOUT DESI THOUGH. Is he innocent or not? I guess no one is entirely innocent. Did Amy really lead him on for 20 years or was he just obsessed with her 20 years after breaking up with a high school sweetheart? Did he intend to rape her eventually? I know that he seemed to put a lot of stress on having her look like herself again. He was clearly obsessed with this IDEA of Amy and the fact that the woman he saw wasn’t that was bothering him a lot. MAN I loved that character, what a strong supporting character. (Also, Desi is an odd name for a white guy? But I love NPH so I will let that slide, especially since he smashed it here.)
(EDIT: So I’m reading some stuff about the book and I see that Desi more obviously less likable in the book. I like how he was portrayed in the movie, and things got really good when his role in the story became more important.)

Margo also seemed like a fairly innocent character. I hate that the twincest thing was brought up because it just really… it ruins things. I read The God of Small Things and I just feel like planting the seed of twincest in someone’s mind completely ruins an otherwise perfectly healthy relationship between two siblings who shared a womb! Even though you start to unwittingly look for it, the wrongness in their relationship, I don’t really see it. Maybe it’s odd that Margo doesn’t have a significant other in the film, but other than that, I really didn’t see it and hated having that idea put in my head. I liked Margo.

Rosamund Pike plays crazy Amy so freaking well. What a sociopath, zomg. When it’s revealed that Amy faked her death and planned on a) having Nick receive the death penalty for her murder and b) committing suicide, I mean you have to wonder…….. is she just completely f*cked up or was there some really serious emotional and mental abuse on Nick’s part? Because, normally, people in unhappy marriages get divorces and have nasty lawsuits and nastier arguments but…….. I mean Amy straight up murdered a man. Made him out to be a psychopath rapist. Desi died thinking he finally got the one who got away and with the rest of the world thinking that he was scum of the earth. I found myself wondering about Desi’s parents and family at the end of the film.

Also, I liked the subtly of Amy’s new-found sense of freedom as demonstrated by her failing to give any more f*cks and just letting herself go. Eat junk food all day. You can pay for it in cash without judgement and it tastes so good and you don’t have to try to look good for your husband anymore. Yes. It may have been a good way to fake a pregnancy or hide money or whatever, but I liked this small gesture.

The uneasiness at the end was so great. You have no idea if Amy is stable. She’s fully capable of killing and we don’t know if Nick is safe. Oh, but we don’t know that Amy is safe either. What if Nick pushes her for real? Again? It could make for a convenient miscarriage, and then he’s not bound to her for 18 years. We now have a couple that is trained in telling a story to the media. How does that play out, given that they will be in the public eye for a while longer, if not for the rest of their lives?

OH MAN. This story is just so juicy and it’s so well executed here. It’s already so talked about and it will continue to be the topic of conversation for a while.

Have you seen Gone Girl? OR
Are you going to watch Gone Girl? What did you think?
Have you read the book?